GRATITUDE + GENEROSITY = HAPPINESS 05/05/2012
I've heard many different definitions for the word gratitude but my own interpretation is quite simple. I believe that gratitude means being thankful for all that you have and not taking anything for granted. So each morning when I arise I try to remind myself to be thankful for yet another opportunity to go out and live my life the way that I choose....to be thankful for all the necessities (food/clothing/shelter) which have been provided to me....to be thankful for my mental & physical health and well-being....and to be especially thankful for all the people and things in my life that make me smile each day. Whenever I take the time to seriously consider the abundance of things that I have to be grateful for it quickly becomes a very humbling experience for me. In all honesty, there is absolutely nothing that I 'need' and so very little that I actually 'want'. By focusing upon the things that truly matter the most to me I am able to give much more of my time, energy and resources to those whom are much less fortunate than myself. Generosity, I have learned, has its own rewards. There is a very simple formula that has worked well for me.... GRATITUDE + GENEROSITY = HAPPINESS.... A relevant study was actually conducted which proved that this formula works. The participants in the study were all given 'x' (x always being equal) amount of dollars. Half of the participants were told to spend the money they were given on themselves while the other half were told to spend the money on someone else. After all the money had been 'spent' each participant was asked a series of questions to determine how much their spending had affected their personal happiness. As a group, those participants whom spent the money on someone else were much happier after the fact.This shouldn't come as much of a surprise since I'm sure that you have your own personal experience(s) to recall that support those findings. Why then wouldn't you want to be a little bit more grateful and generous each day when you already know how good it's going to make you feel? Count your blessings...Give Freely Of Yourself...I sincerely hope that you're discovering greater Health, Love & Happiness in Your Life Each Day....A Learn more about Adam Bentley Clausen's story of mandatory minimum sentencing injustice. Add Comment Good Intentions+ Inspiration=Positive Action 05/05/2012
It requires a conscious daily effort to maintain a positive attitude and outlook in the face of negativity and adversity. One of the most simple efforts I make is to review my list of (written) "daily intentions" at the beginning as well as the end of each day. These "intentions" are words and phrases that reflect the principals which are the foundation of my life. My intentions are notes to myself on how I want to live each day as well as a map on how to get to where I'd like to be in the future. These are the actual daily intentions that have guided me over the past 2 years:
In addition to my "Daily Intentions" I've collected myriad quotes that serve to inspire me each and every time I read them. These words and phrases, although not my own, are an articulation of my core beliefs. Whenever I read them to myself I am silently affirming those beliefs and reciting those words as if they were my own. One of my favorites is a quote from Thoreau in "Walden;" where he was living the ascetic life in a hut he built for himself on the edge of Walden Pond. He recites an ancient Chinese inscription that instructs each person to "Renew thyself completely each day; do it again, and again, and forever again." Whenever I read this one it reminds me that I get a "clean slate" each morning when I awake but further that I have a responsibility (to myself) to seek some sort of personal progress throughout that day. The world that we live in is generally a reflection of our actions. Frequently we can find a great disparity between what we deeply believe and what we see happening around us. No matter how many "good intentions" we have or how "inspired" we may feel it's all meaningless without some sort of physical action to bring those emotions to life. It's not enough to simply tell yourself that you're a "good person" merely because you have "good intentions" at heart. As another quote I'm quite fond of reminds..."The smallest good deed is far greater than the grandest intention" -(unknown). A sincerely good person does good things without any expectation of reciprocation...but not surprisingly good things generally surround and happen to those we view as "good people." It's a positive chain reaction that ANYONE can choose to link themselves onto at any time...and who doesn't want a more meaningful and inspiring life for themselves? I hope that you're finding more Health, Love & Happiness in your life each day!...A To learn more about Adam Bentley Clausen's story of mandatory minimum sentencing injustice, please click the link: Adam's Story That Zen Thing 05/05/2012
Contrary to popular opinion I am NOT a Zen Master....I do NOT have total control over all of my emotions every single minute of every single day. I DO get frustrated....I DO get pissed-off...I DO get hurt feelings...And I DO get disappointed...But unlike most people I don't dwell on those feelings or permit them to dictate my actions. So to answer the recurring question "Am I really like this ALL of the time?" the answer is...Well, ALMOST all the time. I still have my "moments" where I briefly lose my cool but they're infrequent, fleeting, and somewhat tempered. Nowadays my actions tend to be much more thoughtful and deliberate....I'm much more aware of and concerned about everyone else's feelings and take them into consideration BEFORE I act. For the majority of my life I lived primarily with the intention of satisfying all my own whims and desires. Rarely, if ever, did I seriously take the time to consider how my actions were going to affect anyone else. However, all that changed the day that the FBI threatened my Dad and his wife in connection with this criminal case. It never should have required such a traumatic event to open my eyes to the far reaching repercussions of MY actions but unfortunately it did...I cannot change the past but I CAN ensure that it never happens again. I STILL frequently find myself apologizing to my Mom, my Dad, my family, my friends and so many other people whose lives I adversely affected over the years with my thoughtless and selfish ways. This is the man that I have become...I say the things I mean and I do the things I say. My lifestyle finally accurately reflects my core values and beliefs...and no matter "where" I may reside, whether I am in here or out there, that will not ever change. I'm genuinely "happy" now that I am living this way and only wish that I could have come to this realization much earlier in life with much less hardship upon myself and those I care about. I sincerely hope that you too are living the life you want and deserve...Keep striving to find more Health, Love & Happiness each day....A Read more about the events that lead Adam to his unjust lifelong incarceration: Help Free Adam. Also learn more about his day to day life by following Adam on Facebook. ....Like A Rolling Stone 05/05/2012
My lifestyle has changed rather dramatically over the last 10 years. Most of those changes in reality occurred rather gradually from year to year and only now in retrospect seem so dramatic. My sincere committment to creating a better life for myself has allowed me to continually progress over the years. However, having each ideal/goal/destination firmly implanted in my mind was only the first step. It is my unequivocal belief that mere "words" and "good intentions" are absolutely meaningless without supporting actions. It's the consistency of our actions that directly reflect the truth and sincerity of our committment. Each new day provides us another opportunity to shape our future and to gain another step toward achieving our goals. Unfortunately, consistency is the one key to success that so many of us fumble over while trying to unlock our full potential. The actions that are required to achieve our goals are rarely "easy" but nevertheless necessary. Finding the time to exercise each day is not "easy" due to all the distractions and responsibilities that consume our limited hours. Balancing a healthy diet each day is not "easy" when all of our convenient snacks and fast foods are responsible for killing us slowly. Maintaining an emotional bond with another person and/or and spiritual bond with our "higher power" each day is not "easy" in a world full of cynicism and hypocrisy. We simply cannot allow our difficulties to become deterrents, or even worse to become excuses, that prevent us from living up to our full potential. Sometimes we need to re-evaluate our priorities. During these times of financial instability and economic uncertainty it's "easy" to allow our job/employment to become our chief priority. Each day we find ourselves exerting a Maximum effort toward getting to work on time and then toward accomplishing our assigned tasks once there. Most of us are perfectly able (but hopefully not content) to do this consistently for years and years and years yet for some reason we are unable to apply that same Maximum effort toward the numerous other priorities in our lives. Is our job/employment really more important than even our own emotional and physical well-being? If we're not investing in ourselves each day then we'll inevitably have much less to give to the persons and priorities in our lives that truly matter the most. One of the greatest quotes I've come across sums it up best by advising: "Instead of trying to prioritize your schedule why not schedule your priorities." Take a moment to think about what's really most important to you and seriously ask yourself if all your "priorities" are really all that important. Today is YOUR day...There will never be a better time than right now for you to begin living the life you deserve and desire. May you continue to find much more Health, Love & Happiness in your life each and every day....A Read Adam's story and follow one of his daily priorities, training and instructing fitness classes on his fitness website, ww ...E/Motion 05/05/2012
According to Sir Isaac Newton for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. This obviously applies to all of our "physical" actions but I'd like to strongly suggest that it equally applies to our thoughts and emotions as well. External forces and influences are perpetually present in our lives but ultimately we make a conscious decision regarding how they will affect us. Each of us maintains the absolute authority over our own misery or happiness. The ONLY person that you can either blame or thank for the way that you're feeling RIGHT NOW is that same person that you see in the mirror each day. You ALWAYS have a choice to make...You can either allow yourself to become a victim of circumstance OR You can get up off your butt and take control of your life. Be proactive...Start living the life that you want and deserve today by taking responsibility for BOTH you actions as well as your emotions. Inevitably it will lead you to much more Health, Love & Happiness...A Read more about the story of unfair mandatory minimum sentencing and how you can Help Free Adam. Veritas 05/05/2012
Veritas means "truth" in Latin. A few years ago I was inspired to make the "truth" a central aspect of my life. I made a promise to myself that I wouldn't lie to ANYONE about ANYTHING. Initially I found myself being evasive whenever I didn't want to answer someone truthfully but that didn't leave me feeling very good about myself either. In those situations when I was genuinely concerned about hurting some ones' feelings with my response I learned to accentuate the positive BEFORE expressing myself with absolute honesty. This personal policy has made my life so much less complicated and less stressful. Most importantly, I feel 100% better about myself. One of my daily intentions is to "Seek and Express Truth" in all of my actions and interactions. This in turn has forced me to excise nearly all of the negative influences/aspects/persons from my life. I had hoped that all of the persons in my life would reciprocate by giving me the truth whenever it applied to me and not simply whenever it was "convenient" for them. Some people fail to realize that no matter what you do the truth will surface eventually. It's better to deal with things head on and out in the open...this of course is how you build trust in a relationship. The Truth is strong and immediate...Trust is fragile and slowly earned. If you predicate trust on evasions, lies, or half-truths it will eventually be lost. The greater the deception the longer or less likely it will be to repair/rebuild that relationship. Unfortunately some relationships will not survive but doing the right thing is rarely, if ever, easy. You'll feel better about yourself as a result. I encourage you to be truthful in all your affairs and relationships. Much Health, Love & Happiness....A Read more about the story that led Adam to the truthful life of integrity he leads today: Help Free Adam. Help Right A Wrong -www.helprightawrong.com 02/04/2012
To All My Supporters, I have some great news to share with you today. A few months ago the United States Sentencing Commission strongly encouraged Congress to amend the federal firearm statute. Those recommendations now have the potential to dramatically reduce my sentence to a more realistic and sensible term should Congress choose to act upon them. Historically Congress has been exceptionally slow to act upon nearly all matters brought before them. However, recent events have proven that social media can be utilized to influence the agenda and decisions of most policy makers. In response to that great insight we have created a website,www.HelpRightAWrong.com, where there is an online petition that allows anyone/everyone to quickly and easily express their support for the Commission's recommendations. Please take a moment now to sign the petition and then pass the link along to all of your friends and family so that they might be able to do the same. Don't miss this opportunity to participate in something that could ultimately help to send me home someday. Thanks for all of your continued support. Sincerely Yours, Adam Bentley Clausen Happy Holidays 12/16/2011
My Dear Family and Friends, Happy Holidays! Unfortunately, I'm not going to be able to make it home again this year but I still made out my Christmas Wish List and wanted to send it to you anyway. I figured there was no sense in making a list and then not sharing it so here it is... MY WISH IS FOR YOU....
Adam Incommunicado 12/15/2011
Blog Post Written July, 2009 For the last 2 weeks I was held hostage in my cell and forced to survive on bologna and cheese sandwiches...but it's not quite as bad as it sounds. Food issues aside, I generally enjoy the downtime because it gives me a chance to really relax and decompress. Most people have to pay big money for that type of total escape...no phones, no emails, no distractions, and no responsibilities. I was able to read ALL the books and magazines that have been accumulating under my desk over the past few months without being hurried or distracted. There was even plenty of time for me to pursue my artistic endeavors which recently expanded from music to drawing....that's right, I said drawing. As most of you know I've been unable, or rather unwilling to attempt, to draw anything more than simple stick figures...until now. Seems that I had a breakthrough of sorts and found a new hobby that I'm compelled to explore. I'll let you know how it goes... While I was on my retreat I was thinking about how many people never get an opportunity to actually sit down and "do nothing". Even when we sit back to relax we begin thinking about what needs to be done next. Our vacations are most often quite hectic since there are so many things that we want to squeeze into that 1 or 2 weeks that we're away from work and our normal responsibilities. A buddy of mine and I often joke about how "jail-time" should be mandatory for all adults- just like they do with military service in some countries. The idea is that everyone should get a chance to experience this "lifestyle" in order to better appreciate the lives they normally lead. Only problem is that when you only have say 30 days to be confined your focus remains almost exclusively on your "out date" as you count down to your release. There's no realistic way to experience the perspective of someone in my situation, or similar, and that's truly unfortunate. I certainly didn't have the same appreciation, love and respect for all of you, my family, friends and loved ones while I was out there running around like a madman as I do now. "Everything is exactly how it is supposed to be right at this moment." The typing is a little rusty and I've got a few things to take care of now that we're back to "business as 'unusual" around here so give me a few days to get up and running. I promise that I will try to write all of you much more frequently and consistently. PLEASE feel free to send me pictures of your summer festivities and vacations because the Christmas photos on my board are all looking a bit out of place. I hope that each of you are enjoying these fleeting days of summer with family and good friends...Wish that I could be there with you...Much Health, Love Happiness....A I'm Thankful For 11/22/2011
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